It looks as if without end that the world has been ready for music’s loveliest opposites—who marked their fifth anniversary in October—to just get married already. So Stefani’s Oct. 27 Instagram sharing that he had recently proposed at their Oklahoma homestead is the sort of information we would have liked in 2020.

“Did not have any concept, no one knew. I feel he had advised my dad on my birthday about two weeks earlier, and I gotta inform you, I used to be sorta like, What’s taking place with us?” Shelton admitted after to Jimmy Fallon. “It was sort of in my thoughts like, We have been collectively a very long time now. What is going on on? I used to be in that place in my head.”

However as soon as that OMFG impressive square-cut bauble was on her finger, she realized, “It was proper on time,” as she put it on Today. “I feel in a romantic method if you fall in love so laborious and so unexpectedly and so late in your life, you assume, ‘I wanna marry you, like now!’ That is the primary romantic response,” she continued. “Let’s go get married, you realize?”

Given the timing of their coupling, although, two buddies and coworkers pulling one another out of the depths of heartbreak as they have been every reeling from the tip of their respective marriages, she allowed, there was “quite a lot of therapeutic to do.”